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One blog I read often is Tom Peters, and he has an entry in his blog today that resonates strongly with me.  He shared that his mother passed away, along with thoughts on depression and a number of other "non-business" subjects.  When asked why he chooses to be personal, he gave this answer in the first paragraph...

A few of you have been surprised that I've been talking about depression, my Mom, etc. There are two reasons. First, I think Blogs should be personal & authentic. Hey, we're a Community! It's the Whole Damn point! Learning, Growing, Musing, and Caring together.

And *that's* why I share more than just "what happened at work today"...  We "head-in-the-sand" Notes people have to stick together...  :)

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Gravatar Image1 - couldn't agree more.

Gravatar Image2 - I have a hard time with this. Not with you or anyone else wanting to post personal stuff, but myself. I do some stuff, but not a lot. I think perhaps much of it is due to Boy Scout Training and working with K-12 environments, where it has been emphasized repeatedly that you need to be care about what personal information you post about your kids because predators are looking for that information.

Since my life heavily revolves around my kids, I have a hard time posting a lot of it. I notice that other people put a fair amount of information on their blogs about what their kids are interested in, what they're doing. Sometimes I wonder if that's not a good thing.

Have fun.....

Gravatar Image3 - Point well taken, Jon... Under different conditions, I might feel the same. But given my kids are 19 and 17, I figure we're past the stage where those issues are as critical as they might be if they were 12 and 10.

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